Hi .... back from wet and windy Weymouth!
The red wire goes to the -ve terminal and the black wire goes to the +ve one; which not the way you would expect. Fit the LED and leave the body off. Sit the car on a powered up PB and the LED should glow a very deep and dim red but only if you are in a darkened room. It doesn't hurt to wire the wrong way round , but too much heat will destroy it.
Top tip ...... when siting an IR LED use a 2.8mm drill not the 3mm recommended by Scalex ........ you will get a good interference fit and the bulb will protrude by just the right amount.