It's very interesting to see the various attitudes to 'manners' and 'politeness'.
Is there room for these in competitive RACING though?
Is giving up your seat on a bus to someone whom you personally judge to be in 'more need', actually comparable with competitive racing, whose actual primary purpose is to WIN. If the purpose is simply to have fun, without the spur of aiming to win, then it really isn't racing at all!
That is not a criticism.
Just acceptance that these are two very different things, both valid, but not comparable, imho.
Possibly the polar opposites of each other.
To follow the 'gentlemanly' line of reasoning through, suggests that, if your competitors have inferior cars, or are just plain slower drivers, you should cheerfully give up your track position,no matter what it is, because their need might well be judged to be greater!
Well, to be honest, in a 'fun' situation I am quite happy to do just that - in the interest of as many people enjoying themselves as possible.
But it ain't actually RACING.
I really can see both points of view.
Each undeniably has its merits and, as long as all participants agree to the particular 'rules' in a given situation, then this is probably the best that can be managed.
But can they agree?
The 'spirit' will always be subjective in definition. But even the most well-considered competitive racing rules always seem to be subject to interpretation - else there would NEVER be any disagreement over them. Furthermore, the judgemental enforcement of those interpretable rules is an incredibly unenviable task - certainly not one that I would want if I valued my slottist friendships.
Taking all into account, I can't think how we will EVER find agreement here!
But it makes for a lively disussion and that can be as much fun as racing, it would seem!